A True Friend

I have recently realized that having a good Friend isn't about them being cool, or popular. There are people who think they are your friends but they talk about your family negativity, they say it right to your face: not a real friend

They act as if they are completely normal, that everyone around them is "Screwed up" or "Stupid". The truth is, they are. They are so messed up in the head that they have to insult your family members and how they act. Sadly, you know how well your family treats them and how fair you are with them, but then they turn around and tell lies. For them it's all about being dominant, or "Cool" to all who give a crap. But honestly they are just building up fear in others. I wonder if its better to be loved, or feared in positions like this.

A friend will invite you to events as you have to them. They won't say things that make you uncomfortable because they want to be "Funny". They are just embarrassing themselves; they are showing you that you can no longer trust them.

My reflection on this is that it will never again be about the "cool" friend to hang out with. It will be about the trust you have in another person. Never let your "friend" say what they think about your problems...because first they have to patch up their own.